I want to send a message out there to everyone who has cheated or been
cheated on.  I want ask the questions :  Why that person?  What was
the motive after the sex? Where did You lose respect for everything? I
only ask these question because I was the cheater and I need to see
where other individuals where at. Where were you at in your marriage?
I was 13 years of marriage with my high school sweetheart, I was all
that he knew and he told me that If he messed up then he wanted me
there with him. He did not want to experience anything without me. He
was only looking for someone that understood both of us.